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Come on, put yourself in danger, don't answer if anyone calls...

  • May. 5th, 2009 at 11:42 PM
phone in bed {talk all night}
My life is in a confusing spot just now. I find myself pretty lonely in between working because The Boyfriend is also working twice as much as I am, these crazy hours of mandatory overtime that really ought to be illegal and probably are. Without him around, I find myself reaching out for anyone who might be around, and in that I sometimes get burned. I recently talked to an old friend who I'd missed dearly, only to find that he hadn't missed me, and didn't seem to care or even notice that he'd completely dumped our friendship once he got a girlfriend. At least, this is how it came across. This was a real bummer, and it seemed to enhance the loneliness for a little bit.

There is an end in sight, it will get better, it's just a ways off. I'm sure a lot of you out there in different time zones are going through the same thing. I wish we could catch up on the phone when you're not already in bed or I'm not at work. We shall all endeavor to hang in there.

I feel comfortable with you guys, even those of you who I don't know personally -- you who are reading this are, in part, a comfort zone for me, and I wish I could grab you all together and have a massive slumber party. I could use one. Or maybe just the slumber part...



In the meantime, I will paint and draw for you, and for those who will pay me for it. ;)

Please enjoy today's cartoon and, I beg you, take it in the spirit of fun in which it is intended.


  • Location:Not here today
  • Mood: blah
  • Music:Da Beat Bros: "Jump If (If You Feel Alright)"

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[info]mrpatrickorange wrote:
May. 6th, 2009 10:55 am (UTC)
Hang in There
It is the nature of life to ebb and flow. Things at the moment may seem bleak and lonely, but it will flip around in your favor soon. Change is the one constant in life (along with breathing ... hopefully). Just focus on and take comfort in the small things which make you smile. It isn't always the easiest thing to do, but it helps make you realize even when life isn't the best it is still good in some ways.

As always I love the comic, but did you have to draw me holding the burger?!? :) I love your strip ... it is something I look forward to reading every week and it rarely fails to produce a smile or outright laughter (something impressive to do to a depressive, fat man).
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[info]kit_a_licious wrote:
May. 6th, 2009 07:08 pm (UTC)
Re: Hang in There
Ayuh, that old change thing again. My pop says the same thing; when things are good, enjoy it cause it won't last, when things are bad, don't worry cause it won't last. I'm grateful that it won't last forever, I just wish I could fast forward. ;)

And pssshh! I'm sure you look nothing like that dude. Besides, even Hugh Jackman would have trouble looking elegant while eating a giant cheeseburger. I am delighted that you like my strip -- hearing that just lights me on up.
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[info]krystal0211 wrote:
May. 6th, 2009 12:20 pm (UTC)
Hehe, good one!

Loneliness sucks, but at least, it's generally temporary. :)
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[info]kit_a_licious wrote:
May. 6th, 2009 07:09 pm (UTC)
It will be over in a couple of months, but I really wish I could just get to that point already. Le sigh.
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[info]fromourruins wrote:
May. 6th, 2009 01:20 pm (UTC)
Yeah, I'm on the lonely side of things too on this coast. Mine is more the after-the-boy has left for good, figuring out how to be okay with spending time with myself.

This week's toon is great; did you change the colors or markers you use? It looks different somehow...
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[info]kit_a_licious wrote:
May. 6th, 2009 08:03 pm (UTC)
Oh man. I understand the feeling and I hope it passes soon for you. Try some Leela James or some Tina Turner.

I've been using these great grayscale markers my friend sent to me, and I think I've finally mastered using them and not allowing the scan to wash the colors out. Glad you liked it!
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[info]whitneyrhiannon wrote:
May. 6th, 2009 01:26 pm (UTC)
I am always around-ish, if you ever want to chat, dollface. Also, I am totally feeling your last couple of comics! <3
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[info]kit_a_licious wrote:
May. 6th, 2009 08:04 pm (UTC)
Aw, thanks, honeycomb. I always want to call you, but that would probably make it too late in the evening your time. I should figure out the time difference so I can chat you up sometime! I mees yoo.
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[info]whitneyrhiannon wrote:
May. 9th, 2009 04:29 pm (UTC)
I'm the same same way... Time differences confound me :)

But yeah. With Lauren leaving for Italy in a week, I'll likely have much more free time. So anytime you're feeling lonesome, I'm always around.
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[info]gembrat wrote:
May. 6th, 2009 03:09 pm (UTC)
Oh, does today's cartoon ring bells with me! Kit Wednesdays always make the week brighter!
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[info]kit_a_licious wrote:
May. 6th, 2009 08:05 pm (UTC)
Oy vey. Watching other people eat something delicious is true torture.

I'm so glad to hear that you look forward to the comic! That makes my day.
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[info]laviemoderne wrote:
May. 6th, 2009 03:34 pm (UTC)
It's hard being far away from everyone you've ever known. My friends are scattered all over the world now and it's hard to keep in touch. Moving to a new place is rough because it's hard to find people that you jive with. It took me awhile to really get settled in Hawaii, but when I did it was really home-ish and I had a pretty good clan for awhile and then *bam* it was time to leave. I've not had any sort of group here in Italy. Part of the problem is the language barrier. C'est la vie. At least you have hobbies and what not. I think your art is great! I would totally pay you do do some work for me. We need some artwork for our apartment. I just don't know what I would have you do. If I ever think of something we'll get it sorted full stop.
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[info]kit_a_licious wrote:
May. 6th, 2009 08:27 pm (UTC)
The thing is, I've been living here for four years this month. I've had plenty of time to settle in and get comfortable, but I've just never been good at making friends who live nearby. I don't go out, except to work, so it's tough to find a group of people I can identify with. I feel for you over in Italy -- I understand the feeling of isolation, and can only imagine how it would be compounded with a language barrier.

As for the art, I'd love to do something for you! Just let me know what size you want and what you'd like in the painting, or whatever you want, and I'll do it. To give you some ideas, the painting gallery of my art site is yonder: http://elephantblue.deviantart.com/gallery/#Paintings
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[info]anothersadsong wrote:
May. 6th, 2009 06:15 pm (UTC)
♥ ♥ ♥
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[info]kit_a_licious wrote:
May. 6th, 2009 08:05 pm (UTC)
Back atcha. ;)
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[info]nackandmaple wrote:
May. 6th, 2009 07:49 pm (UTC)
Burgers are attractive, but they never stay around for long, and leave you feeling used, violated, and a bit dirty.
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[info]kit_a_licious wrote:
May. 6th, 2009 08:22 pm (UTC)
I guess we have a different burger philosophy, mate! To me, a good burger at the right time is great therapy, intensely satisfying, and leaves me feeling happy and sated. Moderation in all things, of course, but I can't argue with a good burger.
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[info]nackandmaple wrote:
May. 6th, 2009 08:28 pm (UTC)
My dissatisfaction with a piece of meat wedged between my buns is probably why I've opted for the heterosexual route.

To each their own.
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(Anonymous) wrote:
May. 7th, 2009 12:37 am (UTC)
I am so in for a slumber party! LOL Reaching out to friends from the past always seems unsatisfactory afterwards. It is never what I imagined it would be like. I've stopped going out of my way to do that (but welcome when others track me down!)

Sounds like this is the perfect time for a project. Take a class! Grow veggies (or burgers!) Or paint your nails a new color each day. Learn how to swear in several languages. Learn to pickpocket. You always seem like a particularly curious gal and I know you'll come up with something.

And by the way, your toon looks crisper. Not sure what is diff with the technique, but it looks great! I look forward to your latest each week!

Pillow fight!
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[info]hadgm wrote:
May. 7th, 2009 12:39 am (UTC)
Darn it - that was me. Didn't realize I wasn't logged in. :)
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[info]oceanstorme wrote:
May. 7th, 2009 12:42 am (UTC)
Aww, I feel on the lonely thing; sometimes I cherish the alone time, other times it just feels so lonely and I miss him terribly.

I'm totally up for a slumber party! I haven't had one in forever; I have no close friends and no friends that are close by. I miss having friends to hang out with and get rid of the blues with.

♥
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[info]capsuper wrote:
May. 7th, 2009 05:45 am (UTC)
Good as always! The toon, I mean.

I feel your loneliness. My girlfriend moved out and broke up with me, and she was the one with the car. So, needless to say, I don't get around much anymore.
A slumber party would be neat! We could do each others hair, make brownies, and gossip about cute boys. It'll be eversomuch fun! Nothing creepy about that from a straight 40 year-old guy, right?
Let's just say I'm up for a party.

Edited at 2009-05-07 05:57 am (UTC)
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[info]sunny_serenity wrote:
May. 8th, 2009 04:32 am (UTC)
Awww, honeybunch. If you ever get lonely call me. I'm free in the afternoons & evenings. *hugs* Also, you made me want a Sirloin Burger with Curly Fries. EVIL KIT! EVIL!
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